Visiting hours are over

[f4f3]

Back from the hospital. My Dad looked pretty much... like my Dad. He was sitting on the edge of his bed, not under the covers, his colour was good, and he had socks on with his sandals. 
The Victoria Infirmary is in two parts, a Victorian sprawl, made up of several buildings on the side of a hill, and the super-new building across the road. My Dad checked into the one with the most atmosphere (and the A&E).
The chronology of yesterday evening goes something like, he went for a walk, he came home, he napped, and he couldn't be woken from the nap. Finally he came round, a bit groggy,a bit grey, and by that time the emergency doctor was on his way, via NHS 24. The  doctor insisted he went to the A&E, they checked him in, and 4 hours later they had enough test results to decide he should stay in for some more test results. 

All of those results show that there's nothing bad going on right this minute. 

At the same time, the cardiac team who've been dealing with his case got in touch to discuss the bypass he's being scheduled for. The nurse actually tried to phone him at home from the super-new part of the Victoria, to be told that he was just across the road. 

So she popped over, and gave him the full run-down on what the operation would be, what he could expect, everything, in fact, except when it would happen. He's been told that he'll get a date tomorrow, before being checked out. I've told him not to leave until they give him a date. Bed blocking be dammed. 

At the end of visiting time, he walked us to the door of the ward. "I feel like a fraud", he said, gesturing at the ashen faced patients we passed. 

It was good to see him. Good to see him being him. And it's horrible to think that this is the start, not the end. 

Comments

[nicnac.livejournal.com]

Glad to hear he's OK at the minute, though.

[parthenia14.livejournal.com]

Sounds like he needs some surgery.

Keep us posted, and glad he's feeling a bit better.

[sha-d.livejournal.com]

Glad he is ok at present.

Technology and medicine is improving all the time and procedures that were once considered a big deal are becoming more commonplace.

I hope he gets a date soon.

[danieldwilliam.livejournal.com]

Just so you know that MLW and I are thinking of you.

[meredyth-13.livejournal.com]

It is the start, but it's not the start of the end. It sounds like he's in good hands, and he may well find that this procedure gives him a whole new lease on life.

*hugs*

[f4f3.livejournal.com]

Yes - I'm just worried about him going home before the op and doing something stupid, like chainsawing a tree and hauling out the stump, or helping my brother move house (both things he's done in the last couple of months).

[f4f3.livejournal.com]

Thanks. Yes, the surgery seems inevitable now.

[f4f3.livejournal.com]

I hope he doesn't leave the hospital without one! (He will, though, there's no telling him). Was talking to a friend this morning, who told me his dad had the same op ten years ago, when he was the same age as my dad. And he's still going strong.

[f4f3.livejournal.com]

Thanks Dan, that means a lot.

[f4f3.livejournal.com]

That's my hope too - and thanks.

[deililly.livejournal.com]

"And it's horrible to think that this is the start, not the end. "

Of his body being fixed up enough to make sure it keeps up with the rest of him perhaps? :) I know. It is a huge worry. But I am sure it will be ok. *hugs*

[f4f3.livejournal.com]

Thanks - I'm doing my best to be positive.

[danieldwilliam.livejournal.com]

Well, in the absence of any practical utility.

These things are not so good.